My husband is getting on my nerves this week. I just deleted a rant on all the things that he does that aggravate me. I feel much better now. I know i'm supposed to be telling it like it is, but it would have been rude to post mean things about him in such a public forum. I really wish high school girls and recently graduated girls would learn that. They say the meanest things about each other on facebook and its just not cute. It just lets everyone know how mean they are. They attack each other so publicly when they can hide behind the internet, but they would never say these things to each other in person. People who attack others like this are usually jealous of something the other person has accomplished or insecure about themselves. I guess if you have nothing going on in your life, you plenty of time to put others down. To those who have been victims of this kind of internet bullying, i would say this: focus on the next big thing going on in your life, and leave the past behind you.
I also can't stand it when girls talk about how pretty they are on facebook or any other social networking site. first of all, i would never presume to be pretty. second of all, i would not want to be valued based on my looks. Looks are genetics. of course, with some grooming, a not so hot looking person can look pretty good, but its mostly up to chromosomes and dna. you are not special because you are pretty and you are not pretty just because you say so. Try studying and being valued on your brains, or doing something nice for someone less fortunate and being valued for your compassion.
also, the statement "if you got it, flaunt it" does not apply to your gut. If you have a belly, cover it up. no one wants to see all that hanging out. you don't look skinnier by wearing smaller clothes. you look fatter. go up a couple of sizes and i guarantee you will look much nicer. clothes that fit do not cost more than clothes that are too small.
When you walk in the mall, walk on the right side of the "street." If you must walk at a snails pace, don't do so shoulder to shoulder with 12 of your friends. get out of my way. you may not have anywhere to go, but i'm here to shop and i'd like to get from one place to another in a timely fashion.
